The Path of Uncertainty

The Path of Uncertainty

by | Jul 30, 2018 | Off Topic

The Path of Uncertainty

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There are times when we effortlessly move along on our journey towards the life we envisioned. As things fall into place, life presents a detour that forces us off our path. Naturally, we will do whatever it takes to follow the plans we set for ourselves.

Occasionally, life pulls us in another direction.
Welcome to the path of uncertainty. This can be a dark place when we feel like we are under a microscope. We question our thoughts and actions.

When we find ourselves in an uncomfortable situation, it is for a reason beyond our understanding. This is a time to keep an open mind and receive the lesson life is teaching us.

To walk the path of uncertainty with ease, it is important to see the big picture and where we fit in it. During this process, reflect on the following questions: Is the same lesson repeating itself?
Is there another way that I can respond to this situation?

What am I doing to help the situation?

Is there something that I need to release so I can move forward?

The path of uncertainty leads to the road of change. We must allow ourselves to become an open student of life and be ready for the outcome. The beauty of being on the path of uncertainty, is that we find parts of ourselves we didn’t know existed.

It takes a lot of courage to fully trust the process of life’s unknown path.

I understand this can be a difficult time; hang in there! Sometimes life forces us to pause, so we can learn and guide ourselves to a transformational outcome. This too shall pass and when it is over, you will be a stronger person for having gone through it.

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Conflict with an Open Heart

Conflict with an Open Heart

by | Jul 24, 2017 | Off Topic

Conflict with an Open Heart

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Why do we fight?

Conflict frequently occurs when there are unspoken needs hidden behind confrontational attitudes or aggressive behavior.

To resolve conflict, no matter how exasperating the disagreement may be, we should approach our opponent with an open heart, filled with compassion. Abandon judgments and blame in exchange for mutual respect.

This is in line with my tagline, dignified divorce driven by compassionate expertise. Even in the most contentious divorce, if you accept that you have no power to change your adversary, and you see an opportunity to compromise, you can proceed with dignity, respecting yourself, not holding on to resentment.

It’s important to make a conscious effort to release anger and resentment. Your feelings are your creation. Yes, the details of the situation may exist as you see them, and they may indeed be frustrating.
But you can’t change another person. Ever.

The only thing you can change is how you view the situation, and how you react to it.

It is always possible to transform battles into opportunities for compromise. Each member of a relationship must be open to communication, to listening and to finding a middle ground, because it always exists.

But the process begins with you. You know the saying, be the change you wish to see in the world? It’s spot-on. Change starts with you.

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